"All that we are is
of what we have thought"
- Buddha -
"I Am Love"
meeting of two personalities
is like the contact of two chemical
if there is any reaction, both are transformed."
"We come to love not by finding a perfect person,
but by learning to see an imperfect person perfectly."
~ Sam Keen quotes (American Philosopher) ~
"Why are we attracted to each other?"
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What AM I getting out of this Relationship?
How is this Relationship bringing joy to my life?
How am I growing and becoming a better person
as a result of this Relationship?
Do I feel Safe?
Do I feel Respected?
Do I feel Loved?
Do we share attractions and chemistry?
Do we have similar life goals and dreams?
Are My emotional needs being met?
Are My physical needs being met?
Are My mental needs being met?
Are My spiritual needs being met?
Are they faithful?
Do I feel happy and fulfilled more that
I feel unhappy and frustrated?
Does this relationship allow me to be: true to myself?
. . . true to my values ?
. . . true to my beliefs ?
. . . true to my spirit ?
If this relationship were to end,
would I truly be sad about the lose of this relationship
sad that they were not the person I wanted them to be?
Ponder the same questions
when you are talking to yourself ?
looking out to the world.
We see others, we do not see ourselves.
We are Mirrors of each other.
We teach others how to treat us by the way we treat ourselves . . .
I deserve a completely fulfilling Relationship!
I deserve to be an equal partner in my Relationship!
I deserve to move forward in my Relationship!
I deserve to move towards shared life goals!
I deserve to have Joy in my Relationship!
I am far too wonderful to be anyone's second choice!
I take action that says
"I Value Myself Enough Not
To Settle For Anything Less !"
"Being in a Good Relationship is a Symbol
that I know how to Love My Self"
The Master Key System by Charles F. Haanel
Also in "The Secret"
edited by Zelda
When we throw a ball up in the air,
it always comes down.
"What goes up must come down."
There is no need to question the Law Of Gravity.
what is this Law Of Attraction
we keep hearing about?
Norman Vincent Peale coined it in his book
"Power of Positive Thinking" published in 1952.
"We tend to get what we expect."
we evolve our way of thinking we need
new words to describe these
We are becoming accustomed to words like
These words describe energy.
These waves of energy work around us and through us.
Waves of electrically charged energy
everything in our Universe.
Our Universe manages these vibrations
This is synchronicity at it's finest.
This is Nature.
We are Nature.
Abraham-Hicks defines the Law Of Attraction as
"That which is liken to itself is drawn!".
"All that we are is the result
of what we have thought."
- Buddha -
we become aware of this vital law
of our existence, we will see it has always been with us.
We are now able to see and feel our growth.
of us plays a part in deliberately
creating our evolution.
With this in
mind, we can choose to work with this
law for greater good.
is something we all seek. . .
comfort, pleasure and, of course,
"Nothing is more important than I feel good!"
- Abraham-Hicks -
How does the Law of Attraction
become as natural as the Law of Gravity?
Now that we are aware of the Law of Attraction,
how do we work it?
Since it has always been with us,
how do we master it?
serious issues arise,
we must choose our words with awareness and
In moments of truth free choice is critical!
Gurus have been
teaching us to meditate,
to clear our mind and stop our thoughts.
can be a daunting task.
Experts say we have over 60,000 thoughts a
Is it possible to monitor or clear all these thoughts?
do not have to be stopped completely
to find peace of mind.
This is what motivates action.
We need to think with purpose and with feeling.
"How do I retrain or reprogram
disturbing thought patterns
I have had all my life?"
BE IN JOY Right Now !!!
acknowledging the issues and asking the questions,
are brought to the forefront.
It is now that free
choice is exercised and thought patterns can be
Like an exercise to heal an injury we have the ability to
our minds and raise our vibration for the greater good.
train myself to be positive and,
therein, bring positive results.
"I Care How I Feel, Right Now!"
To master the Law Of Attraction
use the two most powerful words:
"I AM . . ."
we speak in the First Person; I;
we are speaking to our soul.
these words to form affirmations to bring positive results.
The more we
hear these statements
the more empowered we become.
Some may argue, the words "I AM" sound selfish.
I remember my mother telling me,
if you don't love yourself,
you can't love another.
words "I AM" selfish
The biggest hurdle in this "I AM" concept is
to understand that our thoughts about
ourselves are far more powerful
than others' perceptions of us.
In the same spirit, releasing others
from our expectations prevents
Allowing and accepting others for themselves.
"Disappointment is our expectations unfulfilled!"
"I AM . . ."
fear or judgement it can be done!
It starts with just one
" I AM "
to start the ball rolling towards attraction.
Start by repeating the magic words
" I AM "
continuously for 17 seconds . . . and beyond . . .
"My conscious " I AM " statement came to me
at a job interview when the question was
quickly asked and I had no time to trip myself up.
I was asked to quickly give one quality I saw in myself.
Without hesitation I
" I AM Patient! "
My answer was a complete surprise.
Not only because of the truth of it,
but of the way I was able to answer the question
without fear or self
More importantly, I noticed how that made me feel.
That confident " I AM " attracted more of that
wonderful feeling and not only gave me the job
but changed my life by opening the doors to
what I am truly good at."
How Do I Fast Track the
Working of the Law Of Attraction?
Choose your words carefully.
To work this wonderful Law Of Attraction
into the fast track of
awareness of "getting it all" . . .
it's time to train your mind toward your
feeling good vibrations right now.
Allow yourself to receive by saying things like:
"Right at this moment in time, I Feel Better!"
"I AM Grateful for all the money I have right now! Money comes easily and frequently towards me!"
"I AM Grateful for all my connections. I live my love. Right now I AM LOVE; with all my heart; with my body, my mind and my soul; with all my being."
"I AM Healthy right now!"
"I AM In-Shape right now! I see my perfect body everywhere, especially in the mirror!"
"I AM Strong.
I AM Grateful for my muscle, tendon,
and bone strength."
"I AM and that is Sufficient."
I AM . . . . . . Right Now!
Right at this moment in time I AM here to be in joy.
I AM here, right now, to be happy and
in Love with Myself.
I AM HERE and THANK GOODNESS I AM HERE.
Everything is exactly as it should be!
Law of Attraction is always
waiting for your requests.
you reap what you sow
and always be grateful for each and every day.
Albert Einstein said:
"I think the most important question
facing humanity is:
"Is the universe a friendly place?"
Now that you understand the
Law of Attraction,
the only answer to his poignant question
has to be a resounding
This IS a Friendly Universe.
The Law of Attraction is and always has been
as natural as the Law of Gravity.
Keep asking, requesting and creating!
Let the Law Of Attraction work for you!
Have fun with this.
Play with this.
Open your heart to this.
Love this way of thinking.
Like the Law of Gravity,
the Law of Attraction
IS as natural as that bouncing ball!
Walking happily down the street and seeing an old friend, a greeting
hug, a quick exchange and, lo and behold, the happy feeling has
disappeared and is replaced by an empty and sluggish feeling . . .
conversation with a co-worker, a partner, a sibling or a parent and
walking away you realize you are
feeling completely and utterly drained.
What just happened here?
"Around you is a subtle electromagnetic body of energy that is
the subtle body
and is normally unseen by the naked eye . . .
it to be a faint energy field like a colourless mist.
it are mini-lightning bolts of flame-like
etheric sunbursts that shoot out from you in all directions."
- Stuart Wilde author of Silent Power -
Scientists tell us the universe is made up of electromagnetic energy pulsating around and through all things.
Unseen bolts of lightning are streaming
between us with every interaction.
"Being AWARE" of this exchange of energy is how to protect ourselves from the harmful effects of
the "Emotional Vampires".
It is likely that these people do not intentionally mean to steal our "etheric" energy and maybe as they encounter our happy energy, they now feel better. Energy and vibration are being exchanged.
It is vitally important to realize how powerful this force field can be. Without this awareness, your energy is easily lost.
James Redfield describes these interaction as
"controlled dramas" in his book
The Celestine Vision.
"Every person is an energy field consisting of a set of assumptions
and beliefs that radiate outward and influence the world."
- James Redfield -
"Energy Flows, Where Attention Goes"
- James Arthur Ray -
live in an energy competitive world where people are
constantly manipulating others and, at many times,
not even realizing that they are doing it.
These "Control Dramas" used by Emotional Vampires
are listed below:
"The Poor Me",
- James Redfield -
" Does anybody care about me? "
The Poor Me
Everyone at one time or another has encountered the "Poor Me". One who draws on our life force to help in the loss of their health.
They say things like.
"I am so sick, I will never get better."
They draw on our
sympathies not for answers,
but to focus on their personal issues.
Upon hearing these complaints,
knee jerk reaction is guilt and helplessness.
We can protect our energy from the "Poor Me"!!
Talking and communicating our needs is a vital part of our human existence. With awareness, it is time to stand our ground and protect the loss of energy. Quietly and consciously
send this friend or family member our
Pure Loving Energy from our Heart Chakra.
Feel pure "etheric"
electrical energy flowing directly into them and in turn feel the
upsurge of pure loving energy in ourselves.
How do we accomplish this?
Just by being Aware
"I was working Home Support. I visited many people who have just come home from
the hospital. My intent is to enter their home,
do my job and leave
I often smile as I bid them farewell at how easy it is to
lift their spirits.
It maked my job very enjoyable."
When hearing and feeling the depth of another's despair sometimes the only thing WE CAN DO is give pure, clear, loving "etheric" energy.
Reach out to this person with our heart and know they will truly feel it. Science has proven, we are not just a mind, a body or an emotion - we are energy; our "etheric" body is our light - our life essence.
" Does anyone notice me! "
The "Aloof" -
one who is unapproachable, secretive, vague, mysterious,
withdrawn or distant. They may speak in a very low voice. They do not give straight answers to questions.
Feel the surrender of energy as we try to get them to come out of their
shell. They draw us in, yet keep us at a distance. They capture our
attention, by constantly using this vague strategy. Watch for the most
predominate body language here - arms across the chest - protecting
This is the time to say nothing,
just reach out and touch
their arm to help them
become aware of closing down.
Just this action
alone moves the "etheric" energy into a healing conversation. They may
respond by saying,
But, I feel comfortable holding my arms across my
Our response is to be aware of how they are using their
language to convey their message.
Body language unconsciously responds
to our thoughts.
The aloof wants to be noticed,
so hold your ground and
send loving Energy to them.
Do not get locked into this controlling
Remember "etheric" energy speaks loud and clear.
Being Aware of our thoughts is also vitally important .
"I know what is best for you!"
The most nasty "Emotional Vampire" is the "Interrogator" or the one who monitors us and criticizes our every move.
They hold us captive in their
energy field by using criticism.
This person has a need to correct our
and this sets us off balance.
Defend yourself by staying centered and hold your ground.
Always send Loving
Energy to them.
They may deny they are monitoring us or even accuse us
being the ones who are critical.
They may even go so far as to argue
is valid, they have a need to help us.
it is not the suggestions they are giving,
it is the way they are presenting the suggestion
that drains our energy.
" Danger Zone! "
the most dangerous,
aggressive and scary
of the Emotional Vampires,
the ominous "Intimidator".
Upon encountering one, feel how energy is being drained immediately.
and violence is erupting.
Feel your adrenaline flushing through your
prickling at the top of your head.
Fear is surging through
your whole being.
This dominates us, this abuses us, this is the last
where the guilt-tripping "Poor Me" no longer works,
Cares". The "Aloof" game, can not be played,
"No One Notices". Criticism is met with hostility.
The Intimidator is in complete and
utter isolation and strikes
with a venom so powerful it leaves us in
The fight or flight defense for protection is activated and
to the obvious danger it would be wise to
leave this situation immediately to get help.
((Sometimes we are unable to leave. There is a subtle and very
aware move we can play. Gentle excuse yourself
to go to the washroom. (We hope - Every washroom has a Mirror)
This Mirror is your working ground.
Focus on your third eye and bring yourself
into Grounding. Settle your energy with Awareness.
Again, send Loving Energy through the Mirror into the person
you are working on. When ready re-enter
Calm and Composed.))
" The Best Defense is to have Nothing to Defend! "
- Stuart Wilde author of Silent Power -
The rules for helping these emotional vampires are always the same:
Be Aware and Get Ready . . .
Ground and Center Your Energy . . .
DO NOTHING, SAY NOTHING
Stand in your Silent Non-Speaking Power!
Pure Loving Energy
Your Heart Chakra .
Know that these controlled dramas are negative cycle/patterns.
The "emotional vampires" have learned how to gain energy and
necessarily want to be fixed.
It has never been your responsibility to
By not allowing them to drain us, they will soon learn these
no longer work and this is the beginning of their healing.
"As you insist on looking for positive aspects in others, in time only positive aspects can be shown
to you, for you will have incrementally
your Vibrational Point of Attraction:
and, by Law, that must be so."
Getting into the Vortex
Guided Meditation CD and User Guide
by Esther and Jerry Hicks
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A Must Read!